We cannot deny the immense power of influencing the opinions
that social media has, and certainly, that is the reasons why we are supposed
to be extra careful while posting something or rather anything on any digital
platform, be it facebook, twitter or your private website. The point here that
I am trying to make is that – whatever you put on the internet stays there, you
might delete it later but it stays in the minds of people like an embossed
stamp, which is tough or nearly impossible to erase.
It was yesterday morning when I came across a highly narrow
minded, regressive and aggressive article posted on www.returnofking.com – 5 reasons why not
to date an Indian girl. However, I somewhere expected that either the title is
sarcastically designed or maybe there is an attempt to sound funny but this
came out like a shock to me to read that the article was neither funny nor
sarcastic, it was literal and filled with racism.
We have always believed that maybe issues like racism, lies
in the minds of illiterate but it lands me in bafflement to see how an educated
man with writing skills of no less quality, writes something so regressive and
illogical. Not just that the five points stated were offensive, but there was
an unfair generalization with the touch of absent-mindedness.
The points ranged from Indian women are unattractive, prudes
and self-loathing to them being feminist and mentally ill. Not only this, the
author even used words like “menu” to denote an Indian girl and added that an
Indian girl has a coke can figure and ad genes. This makes me question the
mental health of the writer who has attempted a clearly shabby picture of
Indian women through his rearward thought process.
However, while everyone found it offensive including me, an
amplified lesson came out of this particular incident. We, the young generation
of the era have the power of pens in our hand which in a way talks about our
freedom to express but what we consign to oblivion is the responsibility that
this ‘power of expression’ brings on to us. Solely because the account on
social networking site is mine, or a particular website is mine, I cannot put
any random theory across in order to mislead people. Off course, I have a right
to have my own set of beliefs but beliefs that are counterrevolutionary in
nature, beliefs that are plainly generalization, beliefs that are not tried and
tested and lastly the beliefs that are shrunken in nature should be think
twice-thrice before publishing it anywhere on social media.
For those of you who still did not come across the most
offensive and disgusting article that had ever posted on social media – here is
the link - http://www.returnofkings.com/51395/5-reasons-why-you-should-not-date-indian-girls.
Do not criticize because it has done amply, just read, and
learn about the mistake that you must never ever commit or repeat on the social
media platforms.
Remember – Social media is for you but it is not yours.
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